The First
Church of Epsom
By J. M. Moses
The pastorate
of Rev. John Tucke began September 23, 1761, and ended June 18, 1774. His records
were for many years lost. As late as 1823, the pastor and historian, Rev. Jonathan
Curtiss, did not know of their existence. They were recovered by the antiquarian,
Samuel G. Drake, and deposited with the New Hampshire Historical Society. They
seem to be complete, except that a little is gone from the top of one page, which
probably contained two or three entries of admissions of members about 1768.
They begin as follows: "April 18, 1761, I went to Epsom to preach. June 25,
they gave me a call. August 14, they renewed the call. August 17, I accepted the
call. September 23, I was ordained. My venerable father preached the sermon from
2 Timothy 2-1,* and then gave me the most sacred charge. The Reverend Mr. Aaron
Whittemore gave me the right hand of fellowship."
The pastor thus ordained
was a young man, barely twenty-one -years of age, who had graduated from Harvard
College in 1758. His father was the Rev. John Tucke, for forty-one years pastor
at Gosport, Isles of Shoals. Mr. Whittemore was pastor at Pembroke.
That the
town had been allowed to wait nearly thirty years after its settlement before
settling a minister, was no doubt due to its recognized inability to support one.
Those thirty years had been a sad period of poverty and slow growth. Towns settled
later made much more rapid progress.
There is reason to think that the first
twenty families, required by the charter, were not permanently settled before
1750. The census of 1767 found only forty married men under sixty, forty married
women, five men over sixty, and two widows. In 1773 the corresponding numbers
were fifty-three, fifty-three, one, and four. It is not likely that the number
of families in 1761 much exceeded thirty.
The meeting-house was not built
until 1764, and there is no record of a schoolhouse before 1765. We need not,
however, suppose that the people had lived thirty years without religious and
secular instruction. Still less can we impute mental and moral inferiority to
people who could rear families and build up a town under such difficulties as
they encountered.
Mr. Tucke was to have as a settlement one hundred acres
of land, as provided by the charter. His salary was to be thirty pounds sterling
a year the first two years, then thirty-five pounds, to be increased to forty
pounds when the number of families reached fifty; also thirty cords of wood a
year. Six hundred pounds, Old Tenor, in labor, was voted to build a parsonage.
He married, March 4, 1762; probably about the time the parsonage was finished,
Mary, daughter of Rev. Samuel Parsons, pastor at Rye.
The church was organized
September 23, 1761, its covenant being signed by the following persons: Rev. John
Tucke, John Blake and wife Mary, Abraham, Isaac, Isaac, Jr., and Reuben Libby,
Nathan Marden, William Wallace, Margaret, wife of Reuben Sanborn, Sr., and Widow
Sarah Nason. October 9 there were added the wives of the two Isaac Libbys, and
Joanna, daughter of Isaac, Sr. These fourteen were regarded as the original members.
The records of the next twelve vears show additions as follows :
In
1761, John McClary and wife, Thomas Blake and wife, George Wallace and wife, Ephraim
Locke, and the wives of Reuben Libby and Deacon Nathan Marden.
In 1762, Widow
Love Wormwood and Elizabeth, wife of Reuben Sanborn, Jr., then of Chichester.
In 1763, Samuel Blake and wife, John McGaffey and wife, Jonathan Chapman and wife,
Eunice, wife of Samuel Jackson, Mary, wife of Thomas Bickford, and Nanny, wife
of Richard Tripp.
In 1764, William Blake and wife, Sarah, Sarah Marden, and
Hepzibah Blake.
September 7, probably 1765, Widow Agnes McClary.
December
5, 1766, John Worth and wife, Hannah, and Hannah, wife of Samuel Davis, were received
by dismission from churches at Hampton Falls and Exeter.
In November, 1767,
Nathaniel Morrill and wife and Jeremiah Eastman and wife, from South Hampton and
Kensington.
April 3, 1768, Anna, wife of John Cass, from Epping.
In 1769,
Samuel Bickford and wife, Mercy, and Samuel Perkins of Deerfield.
In 1770,
Joseph Worth and wife, Anna (dismissed from Hawke), Benjamin Goodwin and wife,
Lydia, Hannah, wife of Robert Mason of Deerfield, and Enoch Robie of Deerfield.
In 1771, Moses Locke and wife, Mary, and James Gray and wife, Jane.
October
3, 1773, Mary, wife of John Worth, Jr.
There is a list of members, without
date, which includes the following names, not mentioned above. Andrew McClary,
Samuel Marston, Joseph Chapman, Elizabeth Sanborn, John Worth, Jr., John Mason,
Jonathan Leavitt and wife, James Marden and wife, and the wife of a William Wallace.
The last is in a list of members that had moved away, which has the following
names: William Wallace and wife, Reuben Libby and wife, Widow Wormwood, Widow
Nason, and William Blake and wife. Only one member is reported as deceased: Anne
Libby. To this should be added, at least, the names of Abraham Libby and Samuel
Bickford.
There are records of seventy-two members. They may not have been
all; as it is plain that Hr. Tucke failed to enter some admissions, as well as
other facts, that he intended to record. The records are not free from mistakes
in names of women and children.
Besides the members in full communion, the
following twenty-six are-recorded as received into the baptismal covenant relations:
James Wood and wife, Mary; Andrew McClary and wife, Elizabeth; Eliphalet San-born
and wife, Margaret; Samuel Moses and wife, Bridget; William Moses, Jenny Moses,
Jeremiah Prescott and wife, Jenny; Abraham Wallace ; Ithiel Clifford; Josiah Sanborn;
Simeon Chapman and wife, Mary; Edmund Rand and wife, Abigail; Ebenezer Wallace
and wife, Sarah; Edmund Leavitt and wife, Mehetabel; Daniel Page and wife Mary
(of Deerfield), and Betty, wife of Benjamin Hill, later of Northwood. These were
not all, as children of others were baptized.
There are records of one hundred
and sixty-seven baptisms of children, and among them, of the following three adults:
Mr. Tucke's servant, Abraham; Phebe, a young woman, about twenty, no surname given;
and Samuel Blake's man-servant, who seems not to have had even a first name.*
The infant baptisms were printed in the Boston Transcript January 23 and February
11, 1907. It was evidently a large proportion of the town's people that became
connected with the church; though the lists include quite a number from Chichester
and Deerfield, where churches had not yet been established. From Mr. Tucke's antecedents,
and evident success in a pioneer community, there is every presumption that he
was a man of ability and personal worth; and, . although his pastorate ended in
a storm, there is no reason to think his faults were greater than are common to
both clergy and laity. There is not enough preserved, in records or tradition,
to give us much acquaintance with his personal peculiarities.
By the latter
part of 1773, some of the leading citizens had become seriously disaffected; among
them, Capt. Andrew McClary, Doctor Williams and Jeremiah Prescott, who made formal
complaint. Ephraim Locke, also had " grievances," quite a number, it
would seem, as a meeting was appointed to settle "some" of them. A change
of pastor had become expedient.
Had the church been free to act, this might
have been effected without scandal. But the consent of a council was necessary;
and, as in a divorce case, there must be charges.
January 3, 1774, the town
voted to call a council '' to settle the difficulties subsisting between the Rev.
John Tucke and the inhabitants of Epsom.'' Six weeks later a church meeting, thinly
attended because of a snowstorm, voted the same.
The council met March 15,
and reported March 18. The report fills four finely written pages of the town
records. As twelve men had spent three days investigating complaints against Mr.
Tucke, we should be well informed of his faults.
No serious charge was sustained.
In some small business transactions he had taken liberties, apparently not complained
of at the time. In general, he was not disposed to over-reach, as "it evidently
appears to us that Mr. Tucke did not take the advantage when he had fair opportunities,
and freely offered to pay in divers instances what persons knew of no claim to."
As to discharge of pastoral duties, the only serious criticism made by the council
was the following: '' We think Mr. Tucke chargeable with neglect of duty in not
visiting Mr. Ward when desired; and we can't but censure his hard speeches with
regard to some of the church and people."
Mr. Tucke humbly acknowledged
himself guilty of the '' faults and follies" of which the council had convicted
him, and asked the forgiveness of church and people, promising reparation to any
that had been wronged. Thereupon the council advised the continuance of his pastorate
for three months, in the hope that the discontent would subside, giving the town
permission to dismiss him after that time.
The council also gave good advice
to the people, deploring the "heat and passion" shown by Mr. Tucke's
accusers, and their efforts to "magnify small and trivial matters" into
grave crimes, and regretting "that many have forsaken the house, and some
the table, of the Lord, and (as some express it in your articles of charge), wandered
among devouring wolves."
June 18 the town voted to dismiss Mr. Tucke,
and "that the meetinghouse' shall be shut up till the town sees cause to
open said house again." One almost wonders if they did not nail up the door.
Thus Mr. Tucke's ministry closed under a cloud. His life went out a few years
later, under circumstances of unusual sadness. He died at Salem, New York, February
9, 1777, probably of smallpox, while on his way to join the Revolutionary army
as chaplain, leaving a widow, and at least six children.
The census of 1790
found Widow Mary Tucke in Epsom, as head of a family of five: two males over sixteen
and three females. The homestead was sold February 15, 1797, to Simon Ames Heath,
the deed being signed by the following heirs: Samuel Rand of Rye and wife Polly
(Tucke), Samuel J. Tucke of Boston and wife Judith (Gardiner), Simeon Drake of
Pittsfield and wife Love (Tucke), and Joseph, Richard and Abigail Tucke of Boston.
October 3, 1797, the widow, then of Pittsfield, deeded her interest in the same.
We may imagine that Mr. Tucke's dismissal and sudden death left the people divided
in sympathies. Whether from this cause, or from the burdens of the Revolutionary
War, it was nearly ten years before another pastor was settled. Then came the
thirty years' pastorate of the Rev. Ebenezer Haseltine (beginning January 21,
1784, and ending November 10, 1813), who had the good fortune to die in office,
and have his virtues proclaimed in his funeral sermon, instead of his faults,
in the report of a council. His gravestone declares him "An Israelite, indeed,
in whom was no guile." He left, however, a smaller number of church members
than were left by Mr. Tucke. Perhaps Mr. Tucke caught them with guile.
It
is greatly to be. regretted that Mr. Haseltine's records are lost. It is hoped
they are in existence, and may yet find their way to companionship with those
of Mr. Tucke in the Historical Library.
A memorial stone marks the site of
the first church. The cemetery, in the rear, is at least one hundred and fifty
years old, and contains many hundred graves. At least two hundred and fifty may
be counted that are marked with only common fieldstones, uninscribed.
The
oldest inscribed stone, on which only a few letters are now traceable, is among
the McClary graves, near the south wall, and is probably that of that the first
Andrew McClary. Near by are the graves of the Sanborns, Eliphalet and others;
and near them, those of Samuel Blake and wife Sarah. He "died Aug. 19, 1801,
aged 83 years. One of the first settlers of Epsom." Sarah "died June
27, 1804, aged 68 years."
Their gravestones, and many others, have pious
sentiments and tributes of affection, in prose and verse. That of Col. Daniel
Cilley (1768-1842), has the following interesting profession of faith: "He
died in the full belief of the universal salvation of all mankind.''
Among
the Locke graves we find a rough stone lettered as follows: "E. L. B. P.
10, 1730. D. M. 7, 1798"; and at the left of it another, lettered "E.
L. J. B. M. 5, 1761. D. F. 7, 1771." These are supposed to be the graves
of Ephraim Locke and a son, Ephraim, Jr.
Among the Bickford graves is a rough
stone, with letters now only partly legible. We can trace the letters "M.B.B.
... D .." This is evidently the grave of Widow Mercy Bickford, who died at
great age in April, 1824. The uninscribed grave beside it is doubtless that of
her husband, Samuel Bickford, who died in April or May 1773. These were probably
the earliest settlers that now have descendants in town bearing the family name.
One of them is the venerable Benjamin Bickford, who has lately passed his ninetieth
birthday.
* II Timothy 2:1. 'o Thou therefore, my son, be strong
in the grace that is in Christ Jesus."
* As regards slavery In Epsom
the census of 1767 found no slaves there.That of 1773 found two.